“Character”

May 4, 2008

Romans 5:1-5

 

Objective Statement:  Every person can allow God to use trials to build his character by following the example of David:

1)   Run to the battle

2)   Find strength in God

3)   Process life with friend(s)

Open:  Welcome back to Alliance Fellowship – “MSU Version”.  J  We’re currently involved in a series of messages entitled, “The Hard Knock Life”, which comes from Romans, chapter 5.

Let’s read this together…

Romans 5:1-5 Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. 2Through him we have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God. 3More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, 4and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, 5and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.

 

“This is God’s word and we believe it.”

Thus far we’ve looked at the idea that we can rejoice in sufferings because God in the process of building us up.  If we allow God to open the eyes of our heart, he’ll help us tune into a deeper reality to life – that there is more going on than meets our natural eye – that God can use things that have the natural appearance of being bad for his good purposes.

We’ve also looked at the idea that suffering produces steadfast endurance or patience.  When we realize that life is made of seasons, we have the patience to hang in there when we’re facing the transitions of fall and losses of winter, knowing that God will bring the growth of springtime and the abundance of summer. 

Today we want to look at the concept of character.  (“Suffering produces endurance and endurance produces character.”)

 

Eg: The Sailboat - Lamont Moon tells the story of a man who sought to make a solo trans-Atlantic crossing in a sail boat.  After a few days at sea, the people that he was in radio contact with no longer received dispatches.  His loved ones feared the worst.  A storm had risen in the Atlantic and they wondered if he had been taken.  In the coming weeks, a search and rescue mission went into action.  After two weeks, his vessel was discovered.  Instead of sinking, the boat was floating upside-down.  In this “turtled” position, the sailboat’s fatal flaw was exposed for all to see:  a cracked keel.

The sailboat had the appearance of being a sound vessel, but it’s true character was compromised.

When storm winds blew – when “The Hard-Knock Life” hit hard, the ship was lost because its character wasn’t sound.

The Greek word that Paul used in this passage that we translate as “character” is the word dokime, which can have the following meanings:                  1) Proving or trial

          2) Approved, tried character

          3) A proof, a specimen of tried worth

 

Key Point - This morning I’d like to submit the idea that God uses trials and suffering (the storms of life) to reveal our character and that He uses the storms of life to prove, to try and strengthen our character so that we’ll be able to face even greater storms!

Jeremiah 12:5 If you have raced with men on foot and they have worn you out, how can you compete with horses? If you stumble in safe country, how will you manage in the thickets by the Jordan?

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Read the newspapers and you’ll see that we’re facing a crisis of character in our nation:                                                                                                        - Business Page – Ken Lay & the Enron Crisis                                           - Sports Page – Marion Jones & Steroids                                                    - Religion Page – Ted Haggard

Why are we facing this crisis of character?

I believe the primary reason is that as a people we’re focusing our attention and energy above the water line.  (Remember the sailboat?)  As a people we’re spending more time looking pretty than we are on being sea worthy. 

Above the water line is what we seem to be.  Above the water line is our reputation.  Above the water line is our persona.  Above the water line is our image. 

Below the water line is who we truly are.  Below the water line is our character. 

Blue skies and sunny weather are good for our image, and we might be able to fake what’s below the water line, but as sure as I’m standing here today, storms will come and our true character will be revealed. 

Our world tells us to focus our attention and expend our energy on what people see above the water line – on our image.

The ads tell us to primp our hair, color our nails, slim our waistlines, Botox our wrinkles and go to the gym to get a six-pack.  (Didn’t we used to get six-packs at the grocery store?) J

The ads tell us to get a fast car or a beefy SUV.  Vehicles aren’t about transportation -- they’re about the image we project. 

Even folksy Peyton Manning is telling me to boost my image by putting number 19 on my mini-van and to buy bigger shirts!

Back in the day, when he had hair, Andre Agassi was chief salesman for Canon and their EOS Rebel, with his tag line, “Image is Everything”.

I wonder if image is everything now that Andre’s lost his hair and is no longer a top seed in the professional tennis circuit. J

à The ads tell us to work on our image.  The headlines tell us that it’s not working.

God wants us to work on our character, and if we’ll let Him, He’ll use “The Hard Knock Life” to get it done. 

à Work on your image and you’ll get hired.  Don’t work on your character and you’ll get fired.

Eg:  King Saul – Let me give you an illustration from Scripture of a guy worked hard on his image but didn’t let God go to work on his character. 

You’ll find this story in 1 Samuel, starting in chapter 8,

-      There was a time – about 1,050 years before Christ, when Israel as a nation did not have a king.  Instead they were ruled by judges and by prophets.  God was to be their king. 

-      Over time they told God and his prophet Samuel that they wanted to be able to have a king just like the other nations around them, instead of having his sons lead them.

-      Samuel knew that this would not please the Lord, but God told him, “Give them a king.  It isn’t you they are rejecting, it is me.”

-      They found a young man who was impressive and handsome, even a “head taller than all the rest.”

-      Young Saul was all you could hope for in a king, if you were basing your choice on image.

-      Trouble is, Saul had some character issues.

-      Battle with Amalekites – told to destroy everything, including their king, Agag and all the animals.

-      Samuel shows up on the scene to find Saul won the victory and had begun to set up a memorial in his own honor.  Samuel also found Agag and many animals alive.

-      Samuel:  “Why didn’t you obey?”

-      Saul:  “I did obey. And I brought many animals back to sacrifice!”

1 Kings 15:22, 23 But Samuel replied:   "Does the LORD delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices as much as in obeying the voice of the LORD? To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is better than the fat of rams.
23 For rebellion is like the sin of divination, and arrogance like the evil of idolatry. Because you have rejected the word of the LORD, he has rejected you as king."

What Samuel was telling Saul was this:  “You didn’t obey God in the small stuff.  You saved the animals so you could come back and sacrifice and make a big show of things.”

“Saul, you’re a lot more concerned about your image than you are about your character.”

“Your image got you hired, your lack of character is getting you fired.”

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Image is what we project to others of what we seem to be, character is who we truly are.

If there’s a difference between the two, we’re seeing a problem with integrity. 

The word character and integrity are inextricably linked. 

Let me give you an illustration:

The Greek word, dokime is a noun.  The word dokimos is an adjective:

1) accepted, particularly of coins and money.

2) accepted, pleasing, acceptable

 

In the ancient world there was no banking system as we know it today, and no paper money. All money was made from metal, heated until liquid, poured into moulds and allowed to cool. When the coins were cooled, it was necessary to smooth off the uneven edges. The coins were comparatively soft and of course many people shaved them closely. In one century, more than eighty laws were passed in Athens, to stop the practice of shaving down the coins then in circulation. But some money changers were men of integrity, who would accept no counterfeit money. They were men of honor who put only genuine full weighted money into circulation. Such men were called "dokimos" or "approved".

Integrity” – comes from the word “integer”, which you mathematicians know is a whole number, as opposed to a fraction.

Dokimos - Were giving the whole weight of the coin, instead of a fraction of it. 

Rod Handley - God is into whole numbers, Satan is into fractions. 

When I have integrity of character, it means that what I project – what I seem to be and who I am are the same.

Eg:  Oak chair vs. particle board cabinet

How then, do we let trials build our character?

Welcome them!

James 1:2-4 Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. 4Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.

Eg:  Shots for Africa - I welcome the pain, knowing that it’s for my ultimate good.

When we run into hard times, suffering, trials, difficulty – we often want to run!

Eg:  Burke Park bench “The Good Road and the Road of Difficulties you have made me cross.  And where they cross is holy.”  -- Black Elk

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One of the tools that writers can employ to make a point is to use the tool of comparison and contrast. 

Saul was a man who focused on his image at the expense of his character.  One of his contemporaries worked on character at the expense of image.  His name was David.

Once God had rejected Saul as king, he had Samuel go to Bethlehem, to the house of Jesse to anoint the next king of Israel.

When Eliab, the oldest came out, Samuel surely thought it was him.  But God said,

1 Samuel 16:7 "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."

God can see below the water line – and when he looked below the water line at a young boy named David, what he saw was good.

In describing David as a king…

Psalm 78:72 And David shepherded them with integrity of heart; with skillful hands he led them.

If we do a little comparison and contrast ourselves with Saul and David, we can learn something in terms of how they handled difficulties and trials.

1)    When faced with enemies:                                                                         a. Saul – wrung his hands, waited                                                 b. David – relied on God, ran to the battle!

2)    When called on to lead:                                                                    a. Saul – hid!                                                                           b. David – humbly reported for duty

3)    When faced with difficulties:                                                                      a. Saul – took them on himself, got depressed                                     b. David – leaned on a friend (Jonathan) was encouraged

4)    When he didn’t know how to proceed:                                                       a. David – sought the Lord                                                             b. Saul – went to a witch!

Saul shows us how not to handle trials.  David is the poster child for the right way to handle difficulties.

Psalm 121:1, 2 I lift up my eyes to the hills—where does my help come from? My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth.

 

David let God use the trials of life to build his character and that’s why he’s known as a man who was after God’s own heart.

 

Close:  Back in February, a group of us attended the Men’s Advance put on by the Rocky Mountain District in Billings.  Rod Handley was the speaker, who taught us a lot about the issues of character and integrity. 

 

One of the guys who went was impacted in a profound way.

 

Andy Baber’s Baptism

 

Invitation / Response Song - “I Have Decided to Follow Jesus”

 

Benevolent Offering – “Holiness”

 

Benediction   Colossians 2:6, 7 So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him,
7 rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.